Recent sexual polls indicate that approximately 15 percent of Americans think their partners are “predictable and boring” in bed. For married couples, it’s even worse: 32 percent of married persons used the words “predictable and boring” to describe their spouses’ sexual style. Researcher Elizabeth Lloyd in her 2009 book The Case of the Female Orgasm (Harvard University Press) found that over the last 80 years, only about a quarter of all women have experienced fulfillment frequently during intimacy, and as many as 5 percent have never had an orgasm at all.
Male inadequacy is one of the biggest contributing factors to this problem. For many men, their inability to consistently bring their partner to orgasm has nothing to do with their own knowledge, and it almost never has anything to do with how the man feels about the woman. Very often, it is simply because the man’s penis is too small to adequately penetrate the woman while also stimulating the appropriate places on her. This is not the man’s fault, of course, but when it comes to sexual competency men are somewhat disinclined to admit they have a problem. Many men in fact go their entire lives without even being aware that their partner is not being fulfilled during sex. The first and one of the most important steps on the path to rectifying the shortage of fulfilling sexual experiences for women is for men to start having open and honest conversations about intimacy.
Choose a time a few days after intimacy to have the conversation. Do not do it immediately after sex. Lack of climax in women can be emotionally and even physically very distressing, so it is probably not conducive to a good objective conversation. It is best to wait a few days and then sit down together and have the talk. Ask them if they are in general happy with the sexual experience. It is important to steel your resolve and be prepared for the honest answer. You may think that you are Don Juan, but if they don’t agree then you may have to consider changing some things up; if you find out that they are not happy with the size of your penis, then be prepared to do something about it.
There are many of options available for those who wish to increase their penis size, including penis extenders. A penis extender is a device that can, over time, naturally increase the size of the penis. There are also pills that claim to be able to do this, but penis extenders actually function by means of an age-old principle called traction. You may have seen this technique used of you have ever seen pictures of a woman with many, many gold loops around their neck. In cultures where a long neck is considered beautiful, traction is used to encourage the neck to grow by gradually stretching it a little at a time. This is the same principle behind using a penis extender. By stretching the penis a little at a time, it fosters new cell growth in the area and actually makes the penis grow larger over time, both in length and girth.
The pros of these devices are numerous, and some of them are rather obvious. First off, clearly you will have enlarged your penis. There is no downside to this. Secondly, penis extenders are known to be remarkably safe. If used properly, it is nearly impossible to harm yourself using one. Thirdly, they are extremely effective. Some devices are obviously more effective than others, however by and large they all have a very high success rate. Many of them are also very affordable. While you can certainly spring for a device in the multiple hundreds of dollars, some are available for $200 or less, making it possible to afford one on any budget. Lastly, you are not going to be putting any unknown substances into your body by using a penis enlarger. You are only going to be using an external product, so you can rest at ease.
Whatever you decide to do in the end, make sure that it is the right option for you and your partner both, and keep the lines of communication open. The two of you will grow together through not only the enhanced sexual experience, but the decision-making process as well. Emotional intimacy fosters sexual intimacy, and it is nearly impossible to have the latter if the former is not present.
