First and foremost, we must stress that deciding to start a penis enlargement program should be a personal choice. This is not a small decision, and should never be started due to pressure from a partner or spouse. You must remember that penis enlargement is not a simple and fast process, it is a commitment to long term modification to the most intimate part of your body. While your spouse or partner may have an opinion about penile enlargement, the decision to actually undergo the changes should be yours alone.
Penis Enlargement can Affect Your Relationships
While we will always find things in ourselves and partners that we wish we could change (both physically and emotionally), the concept of augmenting the size of the penis is a touchy subject. Even if both persons in the relationship are aware that there is a problem, the topic is not often discussed because it is such a sensitive subject. No partner (male or female) wishes to make the man with a size issue feel even more insecure by bringing it up. It is truly a difficult conversation to navigate. If the man in question starts the conversation, saying that he is thinking about attempting penis enlargement, then the partner may still not know how to correctly respond. Do you deny that it is needed in an attempt to boost his ego? Do you agree with him and risk hurting his ego? It is tricky no matter how it is done. The best option is to try and remain open and understanding of the man wanting the enlargement.
A Subject That No One Wants to Discuss
When two people in a relationship know that penis size or lack thereof is causing an issue, it can wear on the relationship. The longer that it is not discussed, the heavier and more tiresome the problem becomes. As the man with the perceived size issue struggles more and more with his feelings of inadequacy, those feelings will start to take a negative toll on the health of the relationship. Insecurity is like a cancer when it comes to partnership and healthy sexual behaviours. The longer that the emotional issues go un-addressed, the more of a problem it will become. Insecurity will spill over into a man’s work and social life, not only affecting what happens in the bedroom.
How To Have an Inconvenient Conversation About Penis Enlargement
Honesty is one of the most important parts to a conversation about possible penis enlargement. This means that both persons must be honest with themselves and with their partner. Yes, it may be an awkward discussion, but it is necessary. Hopefully, your relationship is strong enough, and you already have a good communication foundation under your belt to aid in the overall discussion.
As the sexual partner of someone who is considering penis enlargement, it is crucial that you remain supportive. While you will not be the person changing your own body, you will need to be available for support, especially emotional support. Your partner will be undergoing a procedure that is long, drawn out, and can be complicated. The fact that results are not ever quick will be frustrating to your partner. Stay in their corner, in effect becoming a cheerleader for them.
If you are the man who is suffering from size worries, then it is incredibly important that you express these concerns to your partner. You may find that your partner agrees with your feeling of inadequacy, and wishes to help you change your body (in a safe and healthy manner). You also may discover that your concerns about size are unfounded in your partner’s eyes, and that it really is all in your head. Either way, you must communicate with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. Keeping those feelings of insecurity bottled up for too long will inevitably ruin your relationship.
